Speaking from my own experiences, overcoming depression and later in life PTSD, every so often my body will now let me know somethings up; typically with symptoms of anxiety as I’ve usually missed the signals before that point.
My personality loves to keep me caught up in lots of activities and roles at once but now I know my mind and body thrive when life is a lot simpler than my desires and I’ve learned to accept that.
Still, life happens and we all get busy don’t we?! Currently my main focuses are a college project and studies, part-time work and organising virtual events. I won’t ever name all the desirables that come and go like learning Italian and books. Life can easily tip me towards anxiety as the fear of running out of time arises, that deep sense of urgency that is of course a false reality. Here are some of the ways I have improved at not letting my mood spiral.
PEACEFUL DISTRACTIONS
When I feel any of the unpleasant symptoms; chest tightness, hollow feeling or panicky I quickly step away from my task (even if my brain is telling me I HAVE to do this task) and I go for a little walk around the block, even to sit under a tree and simply do nothing. If you can’t go outside put a yoga mat or even towel on the ground and do some stretches, some deep breaths or maybe just lie flat on your back and chill.
PHONE ALERTS
Put the phone on do not disturb and put it away. It keeps the mind on high alert with lots of things to get you in a negative thinking pattern. Pull out that book you’ve been meaning to read for even 1 page, dance around your kitchen or make a delicious drink like a turmeric latte and prepare lunch in silence without distractions.
SHOULD I CANCEL?
Don’t cancel plans with friends. Believe me the desire was there (thinking..should I really be going for a walk with x,y,z to do) but yes, yes you should stick to your plan. Friend + Walk = Part of the cure